There are some myths out there that people assume to be gospel about dating.Christian culture is like any other in that we develop truisms that we accept without verifying.It's very simple, do we allow the world, the media, the people around us, etc.to tell us by what standards we are to live or do we allow the Holy Bible to guide us? Romans 12:2 says, "Do not conform any longer to the pattern of this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind. However, it's up to us to choose to be squeezed into the world's mold.You will not truly love anyone else if you do not love God first and most.
But after embracing and applying the first and greatest commandment, I have found that the . If you’re not a Christian — if you haven’t dealt with God before trying to date — you don’t have a chance of having a truly healthy Christian relationship with someone else.
There are things floating around that have little or nothing to do with the Bible.
Most are well intended and contain a nugget of truth. Dating is hard enough without sifting through all this erroneous information, so let's debunk some myths.
You are destined to be with her, and God will guide you to her." Good luck finding this one in the Bible.
There is plenty of stuff about God's will for his people, God wanting good things for you, and God's ultimate plan.