In the case of some of the men in this category they may have the fantasy of being dressed in girl's clothes, makeup and wigs and being made to do what to them is degrading things.Or they may be dressed as a baby complete with diaper and bottle and eating baby food. these kinds of submissive's want the kink or fetish.
Here is an article about what you can expect from Online Dominants called, Searching for Mr. There is a thread of messages upon the board regarding this very subject. Out of a sense of neediness, I gave myself over to the fantasy online D/s thingamajig. He's just some sad, lonely man who likes to play childish fantasy games online without any regard whatsoever for the other person's feelings. I've been burned too many times by promises of going real time only to be disappointed after months and months of excuses as to why we couldn't meet just yet. Use your head and exercise extreme caution with EVERYONE you meet online. They've exhausted all other resources and then stumbled upon the thought, "Hey! I'm really needy right now and want someone to take care of me.....Free Chat Now's chat room selection is separated by sexuality and interest. All of our chat rooms are intended for adults and the Sex Chat room contains explicit content. Free Chat is the top free chat website online today.Started in the late 1990s, Free Chat Now is one of the originals. ( I'll flame about the harlequin stuff later) Real Doms are more interested in who you are as a person than your measurements, sexual likes/dislikes, and limits. And.....submit more than just their bodies and do not only submit when they "feel like it." Submission is not always easy and despite what those in chat rooms think, in order to be a cherished sub, you will give of yourself even when you may not want to. ME=STUPID If you are interested in pursuing real life after getting to know someone online, I HIGHLY suggest meeting as soon as possible to see if you are compatable. Please take the arrest of the now infamous "Slave Master" as your wake up call or THAT is where you could end up. Nothing annoys me more than the knowledge that a LOT of men (and women) are into D/s simply as a means to "get" a woman(or man). You either are already a passionate person or you aren't. Behave as you would in real life and do not expect a harlequin romance novel. S stupidity is choosing to ignore red flags then blaming the other person...... However, many D/s relationships do involve some S&M in their scene play.Whether you are a slave or a submissive, you'll always be expected to show courtesy and respect to anyone that you encounter online, especially if you find yourself in the company of, or talking to a Dominant.